I am not too good at bondage or anything trying to rule over me. Control is a very hard thing for me to deal with.  Better yet Manipulation. Yep thats the thing that gets me.  Playing on peoples emotions and/or short comings to get them for fold or bend to your agenda.  I can’t do it.  My childhood was very strict.  And not all the rules were set for my good some were set to ease the feeling fear in some one elses life.  I know this sound crazy.